Sadness and celebrations
Our friend Eleanor, who lives down the road, celebrated her 80th birthday at Caroline’s Boatshed yesterday. We had accepted her invitation to join her and many friends for lunch followed by birthday cake. It transpired that we were destined to be late arrivals. On Thursday morning I did my usual amble to the dairy to get four copies of the River City Press for Nicky. She had time to have a look at it before going off to staff the Aramoho Library and spotted a familiar name in the death notices. We needed to check that we were thinking of the correct person, the 39 year old son of friends of ours. Nicky found the funeral notice on a local undertakers website and discovered that he had been taken by cancer. His twin brother died around 10 years ago in a car accident. We were shocked an upset and let Eleanor know that we would be late for her lunch as the funeral was at 11am Saturday morning. It was a somber occasion, and the first time that I had attended a funeral of someone younge...